“I didn’t appreciate you dueting with him at karaoke!”

Insecurity and neediness quickly became a deal breaker for me after exiting one of my past relationships. I can't and won't tolerate that kind of behaviour. When I’m emotionally checked out of a relationship, that’s it. There's no going back. I will close the door, lock it and throw away the key. I don’t offer [...]

Back ups. Safety nets. Back-burners.

A back up partner, standby lover, or spare-tyre lover is a person anticipated as a potential future romantic partner in the event of the failure or unforeseen end of a current relationship. "If we're still single when we hit 40, just be with me, let's have kids together." — I have a friend who was being very serious [...]

Situationships, Friends with Benefits, more than friends less than lovers?

I think this post is going to be quite an interesting subject for most! It's not one for the sensitive folk and I spit facts only so please don't get emotional if you disagree with something I say. For the sake of mixing it up a bit, I've decided to open with a few random [...]