If I were to sit down and have a conversation with myself say… 6 months into each of my relationships, I would not only advise on what characteristics I needed to work on as a person but firmly tell myself to open my goddamn eyes and take a good look at what’s waving right in [...]
Month: May 2020
One Q&A + two sassy bloggers = love, sex and magic.
Happy weekend everyone! Hope you're enjoying the beautiful weather (Londoners) albeit windy! As if it wasn't hot enough already this week... I'm here to crank the heat up a notch or two with my very first (and very spicy) collaboration! Yessss this a Bank Holiday Special! So before I dive in, I want quickly give [...]
COVIDiaries: The 6 feet of separation
Firstly, I really hope everyone has coped okay during these turbulent times. Living in the midst of a pandemic and a lockdown is something that no one could have predicted. Socially and economically there have been a few cause for concerns. Many people have lost or feel terrified about the future of their jobs, some [...]
We’re not friends or enemies. Just strangers with some memories.
Being friends with exes, there's no universal rule. Research has shown that maintaining contact with exes is pretty common, but the motives for wanting to maintain contact should be thought out carefully. I've personally never had any desire to remain friends with a man I broke off a relationship with. There's a reason why I [...]
Marriage or Mirage?
I’m not opposed to the idea of marriage. I'm just not bothered about it. I’m pleased for all my friends who have tied the knot and I hope they’re enjoying every moment of it… but the concept of marriage bears no significance to me, and I’ve held the same view since I was 16. Typically [...]
The grey area.
As much as I'd like them to be, most things in life are never black and white. I've discovered this is particularly true (more so over the last couple of years) when it comes to dating. The topic I'll be delving into for this post looks at that precise moment when you suddenly find yourself [...]
You used to be my cup of tea but I drink champagne now.
You know the ones that got kicked to the curb like... months ago, then have the audacity to come crawling back into your life on all fours? Yeah, so I got hit up with that “Hi stranger…” nonsense recently, and nothing could make my eyeballs roll any further back! It’s nice to think that these [...]
Let’s talk about sex baby…
There's a reason why Salt-N-Pepa's song, "Let's Talk About Sex" was a major hit. To my surprise however, only a quarter of us are happy talking about what goes on in the bedroom - this was a finding from a recent survey conducted by eharmony. As I've highlighted in my previous posts, communication is one [...]
