When it comes to this burning question, there are all sorts of views, some may even have an anecdote to share. In the 1989 movie, “When Harry Met Sally”, the writer Nora Ephron was exploring the exact question, “Can men and women be friends?” According to Harry (played by Billy Crystal), men and women can’t be friends [...]
Category: sex
Does size really matter? Time to break it down…
I know, I know. It's an old, classic question but it doesn't make it any less relevant right? So let's start with a bit of context... Why does our culture make such a big deal about the size? For years we've place so many unrealistic body standards on both men and women. Where size is [...]
COVIDiares: From quranteasing to pandemic pleasing
If you’re an avid reader of my blog then you’ll know that I started COVID-eo dating a guy that I met on Hinge back around mid-March (here is the post for reference.) Nine weeks in I wrote another piece giving a quick update on how things were going and bringing to light some of my [...]
Love, lust or attachment?
With 80 billion cells and various chemicals in our brain, it's no wonder why feelings and emotions are so hard to decipher. I'm sure we've all experienced a time when we've met someone and felt instantly drawn to them. It's common to feel a variety of sensations including nervousness, excitement, an adrenaline rush, anxiety, an increased [...]
One Q&A + two sassy bloggers = love, sex and magic.
Happy weekend everyone! Hope you're enjoying the beautiful weather (Londoners) albeit windy! As if it wasn't hot enough already this week... I'm here to crank the heat up a notch or two with my very first (and very spicy) collaboration! Yessss this a Bank Holiday Special! So before I dive in, I want quickly give [...]
Let’s talk about sex baby…
There's a reason why Salt-N-Pepa's song, "Let's Talk About Sex" was a major hit. To my surprise however, only a quarter of us are happy talking about what goes on in the bedroom - this was a finding from a recent survey conducted by eharmony. As I've highlighted in my previous posts, communication is one [...]
Situationships, Friends with Benefits, more than friends less than lovers?
I think this post is going to be quite an interesting subject for most! It's not one for the sensitive folk and I spit facts only so please don't get emotional if you disagree with something I say. For the sake of mixing it up a bit, I've decided to open with a few random [...]